One of them managed their different personalities consciously, while the other didnt.
Lets start with the clueless one.
It might surprise you its the patriarch.

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Louis just wants to watch his whimsical and fun animal movies.
Not just any flicks badones, supposedly.
After everyone leaves for the day, Louis tears up the house to locate the missing tapes.
To find solace, he heads next door to ask Marvin if he should worry.
(William Miller empathizes.)
That results in him getting socked in the eye.
He concedes to Emery the best course of action is to be yourself.
Clandestine warfare at its finest.
She immediately volunteers to chaperone so she can go.
I love colonial American history, she tells Honey.
They pass over the boring educational stuff and make candles, participate in metalwork, and take old-timey photos.
But Eddie is furious.
You could have been fun this entire time!
he yells at Jessica.
He then realizes that his mom has to be the disciplinarian sometimes because hes so difficult to wrangle.
This mom gets things done!
Jessica tells him over breakfast.
That sounds like the perfect Mothers Day gift.
Know How by Young MC:What is there to say besides this song is awesome?
6.Super Mario Bros.on Super Nintendo:Mario transcends generations.
Its Eddies go-to distraction before school, which causes him to be late.
Jessica even partakes at the end of the episode, after calling itItalian Maintenance Twins.
Jean-Claude Van Damme forever.
Sneakin up on Ya by Fu-Schnickens:The rap trios run was limited through the mid-90s.
It could have claimed the top spot this week had theircollaboration with Shaqbeen played instead.
Riveting Denzel dramas about legal briefs:That was Jessicas preferred movie genre, verbatim.
1993, which featuredThe Pelican BriefandPhiladelphia, must have been a transformative year for her cinematic proclivities.
Wandering through Blockbusters as a kid was always a treat even if sometimes no rentals happened.
Theyre making a comeback in some hipster-inclined areas.