While Draiman addressed his frustration on Facebook, he has since issued an apology upon learning the full story.
But, of course, the only person able to speak was the one with the microphone.
He was a jerk.

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Disturbed just lost two big fans.
I feel badly about it and I am sorry.
He added, Dont tell me to go fk myself.
You already did by looking in your phone instead of paying attention.
It was a matter of me trying to engage her, said the singer.
Its what Ive done for years and in most circumstances if there is someone who is being passive.
They respond positively, Oh, he acknowledged me.
I will get into it and hes actually paying attention to me and they become more involved.
Its very unfortunate that it backfired obviously with her.
He later concluded, So again, I feel badly about it and I am sorry.
I never want anyone to leave one of our shows feeling badly.